This is in continuation to the
endless discussions that are happening on the unfortunate and terrible incident of Sunday
last.
An unsuspecting woman is subjected to
dirty sexy comments, molested, beaten with iron rod all over her body, kicked repeatedly
in the abdomen, and subjected to unheard of torture, brutally raped by half a
dozen people, stripped, and thrown out of the running bus. Her friend beaten
with iron rod all over his body, locked in the driver’s cabin, made to witness
the death dance of half a dozen drunken men on his friend, stripped, and thrown
out of the bus, too.
The woman undergoes five surgeries
and is battling for her life in the hospital (I salute her fighting spirit and
pray to god to give her all the courage that she needs to overcome this trauma,
if at all it can be overcome); the man is serious but out of danger; some of
the culprits have been arrested.
There is a huge and loud hue and cry all
over the media over the incident. Several politicians, including UPA
Chairperson, the Prime Minister, the Home Minister, and Delhi Chief Minister,
condemn the incident. They go to the hospital and talk to the family and assure
them of “all help”. Parliament is rocked. People in all walks of life condemn the incident in the strongest possible way. Fast track courts have been
constituted. High Court demands a report from the Delhi Police. Social activists and psychiatrists analyse the
incident, including the psychology of the criminals. The social networking
media is overflowing with thousands of angry reactions. Hundreds of students
and common people come out and demonstrate on the streets of Delhi demanding
justice for the unfortunate woman. The whole of India is up in arms over the
incident.
There are strong demands for awarding
death penalty to the perpetrators of the cruelty including from some MPs; for castrating
them chemically; for Bobbitizing them; for chopping off their hands and legs; for
socially boycotting them; and so on and so forth. There have been descriptions in
the newspapers and in social media on punishments for rape in other countries comparing
with those in India.
Among all these noises, there is one
thing which is completely overlooked by everybody. Everybody is talking about
the gang rape the woman was subjected to. Everywhere it is the rape which is
highlighted. But come to think of it, if they had only raped her and thrown her
out, it would have only added another number to the hundreds of gang rapes in
the capital. Maybe a couple of news items in the newspaper and some statistics.
The CM might have visited the hospital, offered all help, announced a
compensation (which the victim may or may not get*), and that is it. A few days
later, everything would have been back to square one for everybody but her, her
family and friends.
[*A
nurse was raped in an East Delhi hospital by a member of staff of the same
hospital nine years ago. She lost one of her eyes when the man pierced it with
his finger while raping her. The CM announced financial compensation to her the
same day. It was reported in the newspapers two years later that she had not yet
got it despite vigorous follow-ups. I don’t know the present status.]
But it is not the rape that has brought the whole country together. It is the
violence, the brutality, the barbarism committed by the criminals that has shocked
humanity. And it makes it all the more disgusting when one realizes that such kind
of brutality was utterly unnecessary and completely uncalled for. One woman
could not have resisted the seven drunken devils (I only hope I am not
denigrating the devils). With her friend locked up in the driver’s cabin with
serious injuries, they could have done anything to the girl to their hearts-fill.
And yet they chose to perpetrate unheard of torture on the woman. This is what
sends a shock wave across all classes of people.
Is it only to destroy the evidence
that they removed their dresses? Or is it also to shame them in public, after
doing all what they did to her? It seems it is more of the latter than the
former. They were not afraid of evidence at all. They were very sure to get away. They knew
they would not be caught. That is why they left the man conscious which in turn
enabled him to read and remember part of the number plate, which lead to
identifying the bus and the criminals.
All right, now what?
How long are the media going to go on
highlighting the incident? In another few days the news will be relegated to an
inner page, because there may be other things to report, such as Gujarat and
HP, Arvind Kejriwal, Gadkari, and several other “important” things. Or yet
another rape! Students will go back to their universities, because they are
concerned about their studies. Ordinary people will get on with their routine
work.
It will be left to the woman to live
the rest of her wretched life, what with most of her internal organs
irrecoverably damaged or removed! She will have only her parents, close
relatives and friends to share her sorrow with. It is also possible that she
may again be shamed by the criminals’ advocates in the court. Remember, it has
been highlighted more than once that it is the ‘provocative’ dress of women
that lead to rapes, thus absolving the rapists of all their guilt. Rather they
are depicted as the victims, who unfortunately fell for the ‘provocative’ dress
of the women! What a shame!
There have also been talks of strengthening
the law. It is utterly useless unless the laws are implemented in the right
spirit, by the right people at the right time. This is not happening in India.
Everything can be purchased with money, power, and influence. Every law can be
thwarted if you have these. Laws are made to be broken. It has become kind of a
phrase, “Do you know who my father is?” This is what some people ask the police
most arrogantly (in Hindi, of course) when they are caught doing a crime. This
is enough for the policeman to look the other way or be away from them as far as
possible. If he does not ask this question, then the police look forward to be
bribed.
There have been demands of
compensation for the woman. No amount of compensation can replace what has been
taken away from her. She has lost not only hers, but also her family’s life and
livelihood. Every day of her future life will be painful for her. The mental agony
she will have to go through might be unbearable. But looking at her fighting spirit,
she might even lead a normal life several months from now.
Presently what can we do? Salute her fighting spirit! Pray for her
fast recovery! Contribute to provide some solace to her!
Is there a solution to such
incidents? Can we prevent such incidents? While it is the responsibility of the
police to bring the culprits to book once a crime has been committed, can we,
as citizens of NCR do something to prevent such crimes? Do we have a little
time to think and act?
I do add an incident happened near Kaduthuruthy (kottayam) where a minor girl was raped for months by her own father.
ReplyDeleteAnd the thoughtful factor is that the villagers are asking family to leave there village and home instead of offering help ?
who is more guilty ? public or criminal ?
may I repeat a cinema ganam " krishna nee evite" {where r u krishna}
whre is the soul of public.?
There are more questions than can be answered. The 'soul of the public' (I like the phrase), I think, has been stolen. What we need to do is to try to retrieve that.
DeleteAll this because of , may be, easy access to pornographic videos, now easily accessible through internet and CDs available in the market. Go to Palika Market people will follow you requesting Porno cds. Hence the minds of the certain people get perverted. In the West, all Cities, it is common even Live shows of Porno Shows . Now it has come to India...So they, the uneducated commons, after consuming Liquor or
ReplyDeleteDrugs, want to do same "practical" things on Women.
Well, this could be just one of the reasons, not "the" reason. Lack of education, lack of respect to your fellow beings, lack of discipline, all contribute to such actions. It looks like we need more psychiatrists than police personnel.
DeleteWould the police have acted as swiftly as they have in this case, had the culprits been well off or belonged to influential families? Here, all the six guilty are from poor backgrounds - they lived in a slum. This is not for a moment to justify their sadistic cruelty. Just a thought.
ReplyDeleteYes, sympathies and sentiments of the people are temporary. If the culprits can be ideally punished, it may arrest such incidents at least to an extent. The bottom-line is that many people have lost their faith in our social security system.
ReplyDeleteCorruption rules all fields. That is the big menace.
DeleteI am afraid this is how India is evolving now.
ReplyDeleteSwift and strict actions, awareness programs, and more measures to improve security will help.
Yes, awareness programmes are the need of the hour. The general public are also partly responsible for this state of affairs. There is utter lack of discipline and respect for other living things.
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ReplyDeleteDear Jayanthan
As usual, a very timely and extremely thoughtful piece.
Srivastava
Thank you, Dr Srivastava. Coming from you, this comment is very important for me.
DeleteOne of the facts or reason could be the 'fear factor' when breaking a law, committing a crime, which is unfortunately missing.It has to do a lot with the upbringing.
ReplyDeleteInculcating right spirit, thoughts are key.
School kids breaking their school rules and getting away by parents 'fighting' for, 'justifying' their kids.
Parents breaking traffic rules and getting away. All small things adds up.
Yes, Sreerag, I agree with you. Good values need to be inculcated and, more importantly, practised from childhood.
ReplyDeleteI do agree with your view on what united NCR with rest of India. The fact does remains that the problem is 3 dimensional. While it might take generations to change the mind-set of the society, a much more stringent laws and their enforcement can certainly prevent similar incidents. SSV
ReplyDeleteThank you, Shikha. Yes, 'enforcement' rather than 'making' or 'strengthening' laws is THE point. Our system needs regular dialysis - to clean its blood of corruption, cowardice, cruelty, indiscipline and such other vices.
ReplyDeleteWell, no society is deprived of vices. Laws akin to the habits of the societies/ country and most importantly 'enforcements' of these law make any civilazation worthy of living. SSV
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree.
DeleteThe 22nd Universal Declaration of Human Rights states, “The society in which you live should help you to develop and to make the most of all the advantages (culture, work, social welfare) which are offered to you and to all the men and women in your country.”
ReplyDelete"Culture Begins at Home"
Ragesh
Thank you, Ragesh for your comments.
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